💐 5 Creative Themes for a Modern Bridal Shower in San Diego
Planning a bridal shower is one of the most joyful parts of the wedding journey — but it can also come with a lot of decisions: What’s the vibe? What’s the food? What if Grandma and the bridal party want very different things?
At Brick + Laurel, we host dozens of bridal showers every year — and the ones that stand out most aren’t the fanciest or biggest. They’re the ones that reflect the bride’s personality, culture, and community.
If you’re planning a shower for your best friend, sister, or daughter, here are 5 modern bridal shower themes that work beautifully in our San Diego venue — plus tips to make them unforgettable.
🌷 1. Garden Brunch Shower
Think: Spring blooms, soft linens, and fresh mimosas.
Bring in hanging greenery, bud vases with pastel flowers, and maybe a floral crown bar where guests can DIY their own look. Serve a menu of mini quiches, fruit parfaits, and pastries with a coffee or tea station.
Perfect For: Outdoor-loving brides, Sunday mornings, or springtime showers.
Pro Tip: Add hand-lettered name cards and soft jazz in the background for that cozy café vibe.
🪻 2. Boho Chic Bash
Think: Rattan furniture, dried pampas grass, and earthy tones.
Use floor cushions or low tables with layered rugs. Pair neutral tones with burnt orange, blush, or mustard. Add a grazing table or mezze-style spread and set the mood with a playlist of indie acoustic songs.
Perfect For: Free-spirited brides, afternoon gatherings, and relaxed guest lists.
Fun Add-On: A dried flower bouquet bar where guests can build a take-home bundle.
🍋 3. Citrus & Sangria Celebration
Think: Mediterranean villa, sunny lemons, and olive branches.
Use citrus fruits as décor — lemon centerpieces, dried oranges on menus, even lemon-patterned napkins. Offer a sangria station with customizable fruit and herb add-ins. Accent the tables with blue and white tiles or ceramic vases.
Perfect For: Summer showers, wine-loving brides, or destination wedding vibes.
Food Pairing: Caprese skewers, hummus platters, flatbread pizzas.
✨ 4. Cultural or Heritage-Inspired Shower
Think: Celebrating traditions from around the world — with a modern twist.
From Palestinian henna parties to Filipino pamamanhikan to Mexican despedidas, bridal showers are a perfect time to honor family and cultural traditions.
Decorate with meaningful symbols, serve traditional desserts, or bring in cultural music and attire. Our open vendor policy means you can curate every detail — from your grandmother’s homemade pastries to a live dabke performance.
Perfect For: Brides who want to include their roots in the celebration.
More on this: Read our blog on hosting a Palestinian Henna Party →
💿 5. Disco & Denim / 90s Throwback
Think: Neon signs, glittery streamers, and all the bride vibes.
This one’s for the bride who wants to let loose. Decorate with silver disco balls, bold colors, and maybe a karaoke machine. Create a photo booth with fringe curtains and “Bride or Die” signage. You can even do custom denim jackets or matching heart-shaped sunglasses for the crew.
Perfect For: Evening showers, girls’ night energy, or a bride with big personality.
Fun Add-On: A late-night pizza drop or churro cart for the ultimate party finish.
🏛️ Why Host Your Shower at Brick + Laurel?
Located in La Mesa Brick + Laurel is a charming, flexible venue that lets you dream big — without limiting your vision.
✔️ Indoor flow
✔️ Tables and chairs included
✔️ Bring your own food, drinks, or vendors
✔️ No hidden fees or restrictions
✔️ Picture-perfect backdrops for every vibe
From elegant brunches to high-energy nights, we love watching every shower come to life here.
🎀 Ready to Plan Your Shower?
We’d love to host your next celebration — whether it’s a bridal shower, henna night, baby shower, or something in between.
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Let’s make this one unforgettable.